(c) Julie Sinclair
by Julie Sinclair, 10/04/2023
Shame is a common emotion that we all feel.
There can be a sense of shame in seeking to spend time with a professional companion. Such desire or experience is probably not something you openly share with your friends. It is understandable that one might be hesitant to talk about his experience with companions, as he may be questioned by others or he may hold his own values that are being challenged.
If you are ashamed, it is understandable and okay to feel this way. When you realize you are hesitant or ashamed, that is a good time to explore where that shame is coming from.
What we do is often stigmatized, and you can internalize a sense of shame or guilt. Society's attitudes toward companionship can impact your own perception, beliefs, and values. It is helpful to examine these and consider whether they are based on societal norms, personal experiences, and whether they are worth listening to.
There is the reputation that our industry is rife with less than ideal situations. However, there is a diverse set of experiences among companions and their gentlemen, and the motives of companions are complex with a range of circumstances, motivations, and choices. It will help your sense of hesitance and shame when you ensure that your interaction with companions are consensual, respectful, and within ethnical boundaries. Being aware and concious of these will contribute to a more positive and ethical experience.
If feelings of shame is interfering with your well being, consider talking to someone you trust, or a counselor who can be objective. They can provide a safe space for you to explore your thoughts. Everyone has their own perspective, and it's okay to have differing opinions. Reflecting on your feelings and seeking support if needed can be valuable steps in addressing and understanding your emotions.